Straight from the Source's Mouth: Frank Talk about Sex and Dating
Are you perpetually single? Do you want longer-lasting relationships? Tired of the miscommunication and misunderstandings? Wish you were better in bed? Advice from experts as well as real talk from real people so that you can see you are not alone in your thoughts and experiences. I talk about sex in my stand-up comedy and people often tell me that I say what they are thinking but are too afraid to say or admit it to their partners; too taboo they think. We'll talk about books we've read on dating, relationships and sex so that you can gain knowledge without having to read all the books yourself. I'll interview people on both sides of an issue: people who are great at dating and unsuccessful at dating...learn from the person who's great and also learn what not to do! We'll do the same with sex and relationships so that you can learn what works so you don't need to repeat others' past mistakes. I'll interview sex coaches and love coaches. We intend this to be a how-to guide. Hit follow and join us!
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Episodes
126 episodes
Stop Having The Same Argument And Start Building Trust #121
We explore how to stop having the same fight. Greg Stevens shares how repairing 36 past relationships taught him that insight only matters when it becomes a habit.• why repeated arguments persist without a foundation• how psychologi...
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Episode 121
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31:14
Affairs, Healing, And Self-Worth #120
We sit with Nikki Corbett to explore why she ended an affair she still cared about, how that choice led to The Scarlet Edit, and what it takes to rebuild self-worth without carrying shame. We unpack attraction, situationships, gendered needs, a...
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Episode 120
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24:27
Professional Matchmaking: How Real Introductions Beat The Apps #119
Looking for love without the burnout? We sit down with Cheryl Maida, Director of Matchmaking at Matchmaking.com, to explore how high-quality, values-driven introductions can replace endless swiping with genuine connection. Cheryl has spent near...
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Episode 119
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23:32
Dating Feels Like HR; Let’s Fix That #118
Dating shouldn’t feel like an HR interview. We dive straight into how personhood forms through early bonds and how those patterns quietly script who we chase, who we avoid, and why some relationships feel like home while others feel like work. ...
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Episode 118
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36:21
So You Married Your Lust… How’s That Going? #117
We explore why marriage is not dating, why friendship beats chemistry for the long haul, and how discernment keeps couples from preventable heartbreak. Shellie R. Warren shares raw stories about porn, intimacy, birth, grief, and the everyday ha...
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Episode 117
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30:51
Stop Wasting Dates: Read Them Like A Pro #116
What if you could tell in under 90 seconds whether a date shares your core values—or if your communication styles will keep clashing no matter how hard you try? We sit down with business coach and trainer Joe Kavanaugh to unpack BANK, a four-co...
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Episode 116
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31:52
Create Safer Love When You Do Your Inner Work First #115
What if the health of your relationship depends less on finding the “right person” and more on becoming your truest self? That’s the lens we bring to a frank, generous conversation with conscious relationship coach, intuitive guide, and author ...
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Episode 115
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28:18
How Role Play And Cosplay Restore Sexual Confidence #114
What if the fastest path to honest intimacy starts with a character, a costume, and permission to play? We sit down with clinical sexologist and author Dr. Stephanie Hunter Jones to unpack how role play, cosplay, and power dynamics can help cou...
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Episode 114
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19:16
Why Trust, Timing, And Mindset Make Or Break Modern Dating #113
We dig into why dating feels so hard, especially in LA, and how personal clarity can change the outcome. Anna Yoo shares how journaling turned bad dates into insight, community, and a healthy relationship grounded in clear values.• LA d...
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Episode 113
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23:56
How Argentine Tango Reveals The Hidden Power Of Partnership #112
We explore how Argentine Tango turns relationship theory into something you can feel, using roles, consent, and feedback to rebuild trust and restore harmony. Linda Sutton shares why following can be more empowering than leading and how couples...
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Episode 112
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27:07
Microdosing and Somatics: Release Shame And Restore Pleasure #111
We explore how the body stores shame and trauma, and how cycle awareness, somatics, and microdosing create a kinder path to healing. Leslie Draffin shares personal stories on PCOS, PMS, herpes stigma, and practical tools that restore safety, de...
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Episode 111
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37:40
Swipe Left On Victim Mindset, Right On Radical Honesty #110
We look at how self-love turns adversity into fuel for authentic connection, and why heart-centered honesty is the antidote to dating fatigue. Jonathan Aslay shares practical tools for midlife relationships, slow-burn chemistry, and redefining ...
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Episode 110
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29:53
What Are You Doing Wrong in the Bedroom? #109
We sit down with sex therapist Skyblu Cutchie to explore how to let pleasure lead, drop pressure, and build desire you can actually feel. We share practical tools for communication, emotional connection, and making good sex start long before th...
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Episode 109
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23:23
Nice Guys Don’t Finish Last, They Just Show Up Weird # 108
Dating doesn’t need more tricks—it needs better fundamentals. We sit down with Sharp Game, the creator behind Love Can’t Wait, to pull apart the universal relationship principles he learned while traveling the world in the Navy and coaching mil...
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Episode 108
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21:46
What if heartbreak is the doorway to your purpose—and a better love life? #107
We dive into how soul contracts, energy healing, and the Akashic Records shape dating, sex, and self-worth, anchored by Kanika’s moving story of loss and awakening. Practical tools help you break toxic patterns, calm inner critics, and choose p...
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Episode 107
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47:57
The cost of chasing an ex versus the value of becoming someone new #106
Breakups can turn smart people into amateur time travelers—looping through the past, bargaining with memories, and mistaking longing for a plan. We sit down with author and podcaster Paul Bauer to unpack that spiral and chart a way out. Paul sh...
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Episode 106
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30:35
When the bottom falls out, what do you rebuild first? #105
Your “stress” might have a name—betrayal—and a roadmap out. We sit down with Dr. Debi Silber, founder of The PBT Institute, to unpack why betrayal is unlike any other trauma and how a clear, five-stage process can move you from shock to a stron...
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Episode 105
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18:36
How One Man Rewired His Marriage by Changing His Mind #104
What if the fastest way to heal your relationship is to change the environment of your mind? Larry Bilotta joins us to unpack a counterintuitive truth: a marriage can pivot when even one person moves from fear to love. Not as a platitude—but as...
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Episode 104
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40:22
From Tech Executive to Dating App Creator: One Woman's Journey #103
We explore modern dating challenges with guest Padmini Pandya, who shares her unique perspective from working in tech, creating a dating app, and dating across different countries and cultures.• From organizational psychologist to tech ...
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Episode 103
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25:24
The Love Language Translator: Breaking Down Relationship Barriers #102
Communication is a skill that requires practice, and effective communication can transform personal relationships. Corine LaFont, communications specialist and podcaster, shares insights on navigating communication challenges in everyday life.<...
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Episode 102
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24:12
Why Having Sex Too Early Ruins Your Chances at Love #101
The chemical dance between testosterone and oxytocin might be the most overlooked factor in your dating life. Andre Paradis returns to the podcast to unveil the biological realities that shape our romantic interactions, particularly around sex ...
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Episode 101
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19:31
Finding Clarity in Dating and Self-Worth #100
David Prosper shares his journey to becoming a clarity advocate and how finding clarity transforms our approach to relationships, dating, and self-worth. His mission began while observing capable people in his community failing to reach their p...
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Episode 100
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22:47
Betrayal and Forgiveness: The Path to Healing #99
When someone you trust deeply hurts you in a way you never expected, how do you move forward? Dr. Bruce Chalmer, couples therapist and author, joins us to unravel the complex journey from betrayal to forgiveness.Dr. Chalmer challenges c...
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Episode 99
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32:16
Attachment Styles and Your Sex Life #98
Ever wondered why your relationships follow the same frustrating patterns? The answer might lie in your attachment style—a psychological blueprint formed in early childhood that shapes how you connect with others throughout your life. In this e...
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Episode 98
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31:15
Your Genitals Have a Voice: Sexual Liberation Through Radical Honesty #97
Have you ever wondered what it would feel like to show up completely authentically in your relationships? To strip away the masks, scripts, and expectations that keep you playing small?Intimacy coach Hani Cheng takes us on a profound jo...
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Episode 97
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38:48